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Friday, Mar. 23, 2007 - 1:38 p.m. My Charmed Life
Yesterday while the kids were
simultaneously napping, yeah, it can happen, I managed to sort through a
plethora of papers and mementos that had been accumulating on top of a cabinet
here in our "office." The accumulation has gone on since the
last time I sorted through these items, about 4 years, or right around the time
Tarik left to go work overseas in Jordan. Needless to say there was a
goodly amount of dust that had formed a rather nasty layer of allergens.
Despite that, I sat down on the floor with my pile and began. If there is
one thing I have learned in my 38 years is that I am truly a blessed
person. I must have dusted off and put away close to 100 birthday cards
alone, and just from the past three years. Also in the mix were thank you
notes, wedding, graduation, baby shower, bridal shower and other party
invitations, post cards, theater programs, announcements of various kinds
including births, upcoming performances in shows, happy occasions, and, a few
funeral bulletins. There are cards from bouquets of flowers
that Tarik sent me while he was overseas. Marty and Kym, I found your
wedding invitation along with our place cards from your reception. Eide, I
found your wedding invitation. Mandy Odgers high school graduation
announcement. Reesa Graham's U of H graduation announcement. There
was an old Christmas party invitation from Mark and Cat Jones ; the bulletin
from Lenny's funeral; an invite to Vicky Nietzel's wedding and house
warming; the bulletin from the funeral of the woman who cast
me in my first stage role; congratulatory cards on the birth of
Travis; numerous cards from old friends of mine who send cards each and
EVERY holiday including St. Pats, and Halloween; and not to mention all of the
Christmas cards. I save everything. I know, I am a pack rat, but
each and every one of these things is something personal and holds sentimental
value for me. They are but small reminders that to these people, I am am
someone special in their lives, and that my presence at their special event is
meaningful, or that they are thinking of me and wishing me well. Cards of
any kind are but a small gesture, but mean so much, are from the heart and very
personal. Going
through this assortment also reminded me how of little time I have spent the
last few years reciprocating these kind gestures. For the past three
Christmases I have not sent Christmas cards. And I know I don't have as
much extra time on my hands as I did before Tarik went overseas and I had
children, but, I could still make a more concerted effort to get them out.
And if I have ever had a New Year's resolution, its been to make a more
concerted effort to remember birthdays. I guess what I am trying to get
across here is that I appreciate that my friendship is meaningful to so
many. They say that on your deathbed, its not the wealth you've
accumulated, or the possessions you have, or the stature you have obtained that
matters, its those we love and them who love us that matter. I am fortunate that
my cup runneth over. Song
Virus du Jour: "Ruby Tuesday" ~ The Rolling Stones Useless
Trivia du Jour: Even when I am being all sentimental like this, it
still cracks me up to hear Travis say the word "farted". |
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- - Wednesday, May. 21, 2008
More updates on another blog home. - Wednesday, Feb. 06, 2008 Where are my zzzzzz's? - Thursday, Nov. 08, 2007 Halloween '07 - Friday, Nov. 02, 2007 Hallween is All Good! - Wednesday, Oct. 31, 2007 |
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